You know, sometimes with all of this focus on being positive and the Law of Attraction, we forget that IT IS OKAY to feel sad or to have a bad day.
You are separated from your husband and if you were to feel happy about it, that would not be a good sign!!
Miss him, long for him, be sad, shed a tear....IT IS OKAY! It is normal. But then let it go and move on.
It is only a problem if you let the sadness consume your life.
Fact - You and your husband will sadly be separated until the Autumn. You can either be miserable and sad for the next 6 months (only YOU can make yourself miserable and sad) or you can be happy, despite your circumstances.
I'm sure your husband and son would prefer you to be happy and positive!
But when you miss him, or when you have a bad day....don't beat yourself up! Acknowledge those feelings and then move on.
Your husband is a real hero and we are so grateful to all of the young men and women in the Armed Forces. I hope you find support in this forum and on this website and please let us know how you are getting along.